Ok I have a crush on a co-worker..At first i was thinking that he didn't like me in the first place and that he probably like as a friend because one day i pass by him and said hi and he ask what floor was I going to be working in and after that I left, but he never came across the hall since we where in the same floor but different department to have a conversation with me and he left when i was turn away without saying goodbye so after that I thought he didn't like.. So one day we where both working in the same area so i decided to wear something cute. I saw him and said hi, often times he would tried to get near me but I would walk away. After awhile we eventually found ourselves talking and since I had told him that I was no longer going to work there he said  "awww I'm not going to see you anymore" and he ask if I had a facebook I said that I really don't like facebook that much hoping he will ask for my number and he didn't. So on my last day working there he mention that to me, but right when I was eating in the break-room he was leaving but never said a word to me i thought maybe because they were other co-workers there. So I decided to friend request him on facebook and he immediately accepted it and its been 4 days he hasn't message me at all.. what should I do wait for him to do say something or just forget about him?
Jan 23, 2013 @ 11:12 pm

4 Replies

Ali de Bold

Maybe he thought you weren't interested?

I'm sure he'll eventually get in touch if he is interested in available. Maybe when he asked you about Facebook and you said you weren't really into it he thought you were brushing him off. I'm sure the fact you have added him now is encouraging. Just wait and see or initiate a conversation yourself and see where it goes :)
Jan 24, 2013 @ 09:06 am

Take some initiative

He might be waiting for you to message him! Don't be shy when it comes to getting what you want.
Jan 24, 2013 @ 11:55 am

Message Him?

He obviously likes you as a person and friend, so that's a good place to start. I wouldn't worry too much about reading signs about whether or not he's into you. Signs can be misread or misinterpreted. If you are interested, then I agree with @melissakj, just message him! Just try not to put too much stock into this or to build it up. Take it for what it is and if nothing more, you'll make a good friend!
Jan 24, 2013 @ 01:32 pm

Message Him!

I totally agree with the ladies above. I think that maybe you should take the initiative to send him a message. Maybe he is waiting around to hear from you.

<3 Good luck!
Jan 26, 2013 @ 12:30 pm

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