Me an my boyfriend have been together 4yrs we have a 9 month old daughter we had future plans of marriage but are relationships havre gone through ups an downs as far as him being lazy an selfish not helping with are daughter not taking me any where an being a couple or cleaning using im tired from work as an excuse which is understandable but i need breaks to.. so we break up a week an get back together.so when we broke up again i was really ready to give up but then he made this big change saying how he loved me i was his bestfriend an all the deep good stuff u wanna here but i knew his friend wanted him to date his sister an they obviously had been texting so i asked did he sleep with her he said no she was unttractive an just said the most about her i had a feeling but ignored it an we were doing so good i let it go an his sister comes over an tells me he slept with her an i asked again an he said yes an that they cuddled :(.. im heart broken ive always stood by him no matter what been there for him are love making was always so passionate an we been really happy recently but i feel if u loved me so much knowing how much we have ups an downs but always make it through why would he do this i feel like my otherhalf is gone an every great part of me that we shared an that he shared is now hers i feel.like shes had have of me an i cant stop crying what should i do he says she means nothing but that doesnt change anything or how i feel .. btw sorry its so long im just hurt
Jul 22, 2014 @ 12:30 am

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Time heals

It takes a long time but eventually you will get over him if you go on with your life. Men make mistakes and you can always forgive him and not worry what people say. If you don't mind having your heart broken over and over again you can stay together. If you want to find someone who will love you better and help with your daughter then men like that are out there. You'll need time to get over what he has done to your heart. Only you can make the choice, only you know what you have to do...leave or stay....you can read a million replies but you'll decide all on your own the same anyway. Good luck. I'm sad for you.
Jul 23, 2014 @ 10:17 pm

What does your heart say?

I whole heartedly agree with Melanie. You have to do what is in your heart, either way. Either way will be difficult, but this is reality, so listen to your heart. take your time, and be happy.
Aug 04, 2014 @ 01:22 pm

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