highly difficult thread to post

on Jan 12, 2009 @ 11:47 am

...because its such a 'taboo' topic.
When my boyfriend and i have sex,there is a certain position which gets (im assuming) lots of 'air' in 'there'..:-0 thus resulting in a rather embarassing sound. i am hoping you all know what i mean by this lol! it is often from behind which gets this happening. is there any way to stop this embarassing bodily thing from happening?

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It's natural... on Jan 12, 2009 @ 12:06 pm

Do not get embarassed by this..it happens to the best of us...just relax and enjoy the moment and learn to laugh about it with your partner. You could also try using more lubrification...maybe that will help.

same here on Jan 12, 2009 @ 12:42 pm

i find this interesting...because i went through the same just the other day:) is it because there is air getting caught and then released?? if so why would more lubrication be needed

Happens to everyone on Jan 12, 2009 @ 12:53 pm

Ok so you 'varted' aka had a vaginal fart. This is normal and it has everything to do with the position. Sometimes when your pelvis is in the air, or when he is pumping, air can get into it. You feel it going in and you hear it coming out!

Unlike a fart, which is produced by gas and often accompanied by a bad smell, the vart is simply trapped air. I have also heard this happen to some people during pilates classes or other exercise where your pelvis is in the air.

The best way to avoid the vart is to know which positions will make this happen and either avoid them or tweak them. You can also mention to him in advance that certain maneouvers will cause this to happen and that it is beyond your control.

I have heard what silvercity mentioned about using more lubrication, but find that it is more related to position than anything else.

yup! on Jan 12, 2009 @ 01:41 pm

I have been there too. It is embarrassing! All you can do is change your position, even just slightly.

Queef on Jan 12, 2009 @ 06:08 pm

When I was little I over heard some women talking about it, and then I asked my mom (very loudly) what a queef was. ^_^

It's a pretty natural thing, as long as its not getting in the way of you guys having a good time I wouldn't worry about it. I would suggest trying to relax your muscles down there a little bit, I notice that when I tense up more is when it seems to happen the most.

Also, I agree with the above post, try altering your position just a little bit and see what happens.

laugh it off! on Jan 13, 2009 @ 07:59 am

Its completely normal. My husband and I just laugh and laugh when it happens. If you can laugh it off you can keep the moment going. Embarrassment can cause some tension and kill the moment (in my opinion).

p***y farts on Jan 14, 2009 @ 05:18 pm

are quite common.

they usually (ime) happen when he's going at it from behind. if i fart after it and he looks at me funny i just tell him to choose between no doggie or endure the possible p***y fart. all men love doggy so he'll learn to love the p***y fart. ahaha.

the FIRST time it happened to me tho, i cried. i could care less anymore.

lube on Jan 14, 2009 @ 05:18 pm

i find toooooo much lube causes it to happen.

no worries hunny on Jan 19, 2009 @ 10:58 am

lmao Dont worry about it im SURE it happens to everyone...i know it hapens to me! sometimes its realllly loud lol!!! Ive tryed to hold it in but it dosent work lol and just makes me laugh. the key is to laugh it off...it would be a little harder to do if it was a pilaties class though! lol

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