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Anonymous

...because its such a 'taboo' topic.
When my boyfriend and i have sex,there is a certain position which gets (im assuming) lots of 'air' in 'there'..:-0 thus resulting in a rather embarassing sound. i am hoping you all know what i mean by this lol! it is often from behind which gets this happening. is there any way to stop this embarassing bodily thing from happening?
Jan 12, 2009 @ 11:47 am

9 Replies


silvercity

It's natural...

Do not get embarassed by this..it happens to the best of us...just relax and enjoy the moment and learn to laugh about it with your partner. You could also try using more lubrification...maybe that will help.
Jan 12, 2009 @ 12:06 pm
bettyboop

same here

i find this interesting...because i went through the same just the other day:) is it because there is air getting caught and then released?? if so why would more lubrication be needed
Jan 12, 2009 @ 12:42 pm
Anonymous

Happens to everyone

Ok so you 'varted' aka had a vaginal fart. This is normal and it has everything to do with the position. Sometimes when your pelvis is in the air, or when he is pumping, air can get into it. You feel it going in and you hear it coming out!

Unlike a fart, which is produced by gas and often accompanied by a bad smell, the vart is simply trapped air. I have also heard this happen to some people during pilates classes or other exercise where your pelvis is in the air.

The best way to avoid the vart is to know which positions will make this happen and either avoid them or tweak them. You can also mention to him in advance that certain maneouvers will cause this to happen and that it is beyond your control.

I have heard what silvercity mentioned about using more lubrication, but find that it is more related to position than anything else.
Jan 12, 2009 @ 12:53 pm
Anonymous

yup!

I have been there too. It is embarrassing! All you can do is change your position, even just slightly.
Jan 12, 2009 @ 01:41 pm
JuxtaposedPink

Queef

When I was little I over heard some women talking about it, and then I asked my mom (very loudly) what a queef was. ^_^

It's a pretty natural thing, as long as its not getting in the way of you guys having a good time I wouldn't worry about it. I would suggest trying to relax your muscles down there a little bit, I notice that when I tense up more is when it seems to happen the most.

Also, I agree with the above post, try altering your position just a little bit and see what happens.
Jan 12, 2009 @ 06:08 pm
spotty

laugh it off!

Its completely normal. My husband and I just laugh and laugh when it happens. If you can laugh it off you can keep the moment going. Embarrassment can cause some tension and kill the moment (in my opinion).
Jan 13, 2009 @ 07:59 am
au_scenegrl09

p***y farts

are quite common.

they usually (ime) happen when he's going at it from behind. if i fart after it and he looks at me funny i just tell him to choose between no doggie or endure the possible p***y fart. all men love doggy so he'll learn to love the p***y fart. ahaha.

the FIRST time it happened to me tho, i cried. i could care less anymore.
Jan 14, 2009 @ 05:18 pm
au_scenegrl09

lube

i find toooooo much lube causes it to happen.
Jan 14, 2009 @ 05:18 pm
Pandora84

no worries hunny

lmao Dont worry about it im SURE it happens to everyone...i know it hapens to me! sometimes its realllly loud lol!!! Ive tryed to hold it in but it dosent work lol and just makes me laugh. the key is to laugh it off...it would be a little harder to do if it was a pilaties class though! lol
Jan 19, 2009 @ 10:58 am

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