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His moving on???


There's this guy who would constantly flirt and always texted me I always had my guard up because usually all the guys who I liked will break my heart or stop talking to me. So I tried my best not have deep feelings for this guy but it was hard no to because he had all the qualities I was looking for in a man he was such a gentleman. So I finally gaved in we went on a date after our date was over he said he had fun and he will like to do it again. I was excited and couldn't wait but he hasnt texted me for a week until I finally had the guts to do it. We pretty much talked about how our work was going and I had to end our text conversation because I had a huge headache and I wanted to go to sleep. He hasnt text me since then but yet he keeps on posting pictures of himself working out in the gym (he mention to me he wanted to get slimmer) in Twitter. It feels like now his too busy working out and maybe he sees that he can get someone better than me. I thought he was different. The worst thing is I sometimes see him at work because he works in the same area as me
Jun 26, 2014 @ 08:55 pm

7 Replies


Ask him

Maybe you should ask him to go out again.
He might have thought you weren't that into him.
The worst thing he can say is no and you can move on
and get it off you brain girl.
Jul 01, 2014 @ 01:08 am

Ask him out

Just as Peyton, I think you should ask him out. Maybe he thinks just the same as you do "She didn't call me back/ might not be interested". As you said that when you texted him, you ended your conversation quickly due to a headache, he might have seen that as a sign of you not being interested ;) You might get turned down if you ask, but if you don't, you will never know what his feelings are and might regret it later. ;) Good luck with that!
Jul 01, 2014 @ 11:32 pm

Wouldn't hurt...

To ask him out again, maybe he's too shy to make the first move.
Jul 03, 2014 @ 05:55 pm


I've talked to many guys about this, and what they say is what the girls here have told you - the guys themselves are often too shy to ask you out, thinking that you're not interested. His working out might be because he enjoys the rush from pumping iron, but it could just as well stem from a sense of insecurity and uncertainty about his attractiveness and body image. My man works out to look good and worries that he isn't fit/sexy/attractive enough, and has admitted as much to me. Which I highly value, by the way. But yeah, try it, ask him out. :)
Jul 15, 2014 @ 07:31 pm


Mention to him you've noticed on twitter he's working out more-maybe suggest going to the gym with him for a workout or even better suggest a nice hike to enjoy the outdoors and hopefully some engaging conversation!
Jul 18, 2014 @ 05:09 pm

Chat him up at/ near work

Next time you see him, chat him up, and mention that you guys should work out together sometime this week! Take it from there
Aug 24, 2014 @ 01:06 am

go for it

Tell him you had a great time and you want to do it again.
Maybe hes just not sure how your feeling since it sounds like you've had your guard up for awhile..

Good luck! :))))
Sep 07, 2014 @ 01:35 pm

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