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How to Fix a Bad Kisser


I've started dating this guy and he's bad at kissing. The first kiss I thought might've been just because it's the first kiss and that's usually awkward. But they're still bad after that. His kisses are slobbery and not very firm and his hands are jabby (not sure if that makes sense). And for some reason when he's done making out for a bit he'll kiss my forehead. All of this actually makes me not want to kiss him at all. How can I get him to be a better kisser? I've considered telling him outright but I think that'd be too much a blow to his ego. Any ideas?
Sep 06, 2011 @ 06:42 pm

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try showing him

It sounds like maybe he has an idea in his head about what he thinks girls want in a kiss. However that def is not it! I think the closer ya'll get the more real the kiss will become. If that makes sense. When you kiss him maybe slow down and kiss him slowly how you want the kiss to be. It will probably seem more sensual to him but if he starts picking up on it say " i love when you kiss me like that". Guys are pretty basic...most of them know that "i like/love when you do that" mean that THAT IS WHAT THEY SHOULD DO. lol

Good luck! :)
Sep 07, 2011 @ 11:58 am

I'm having this problem too!

Hoping to bring this to the top of the forum again. I met a guy about a month ago who is so fascinating in many ways, but he's just a terrible kisser. Though I know he's not, it's like he's super inexperienced (like fumbling around as a teenager). I've attached a meme that pretty much expresses what he's doing wrong.

Subconsciously I think I've employed the technique you use on your dog when they do something wrong (don't give them attention until they stop). Definitely not this extreme but I pull away almost like to reset the situation and try again. However, this is totally not working. I asked one of my guy friends for advice and he said he would find it sexy if a girl grabbed his head and said "hey, just relax" then take the lead and kiss him.. But the problem is, he is relaxed! And me taking the lead isn't helping...

Any advice?

Jul 06, 2019 @ 07:44 pm


I did this with a bad kisser years ago... was in a flirty mood and said "you follow what I do"... I made a game of it... started with a peck on the lips, then longer, then more of a good kiss, saying "not wet", etc. It worked but I kept it short and playful, did it a bunch and he CHANGED!!!!!

Sloppy kissers are the worst, good luck!
Jul 17, 2019 @ 01:58 pm

Bad Kisser

This is just a thought: could it be that you just aren't attracted to him? Perhaps he's not the "one"?
Jul 17, 2019 @ 02:51 pm

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