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How to let go of a guy you been with for years


I've been happy with my man but he is very manipulative when we do fight and is bad for lying and keeping things from me but I am so attached to him and don't know how to make it change. It's been years I also don't cope well when I do leave him due to not wanting to.  No rude comments please.
May 10, 2019 @ 12:19 pm

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you need somebody new!

If I were you I would start looking for somebody new...…….. When you find a decent new man, you need to let him down easy stating that you are no longer happy in your present relationship.

Life is too short to be unhappy and you deserve to be happy!!!!!!

May 10, 2019 @ 11:32 pm

How to let go of a guy that you have been with for years?

Two questions for you:

1. How long have you two been together?
2. Are you married to him?
May 10, 2019 @ 11:36 pm
Cristale Adams

Same Boat

Married and almost 10 years 2 young daughters
May 12, 2019 @ 10:59 pm

I did it and never looked back!

I was with an abuser for a few years. One day I decided I was worth more and so were my kids. I left with very little and had to start ALL over, but I am now stronger and happoer and I choose how I live my life. Its VERY scary, but there are SO many supports out there-even if you have 0 money. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and KNOW YOUR WORTH! I really wish you the best. <3 Add me as friend if you like.
May 14, 2019 @ 10:25 am


Have you tried talking to him about it? I think that if he truly cares about you and loves you he should be open to the conversation. I think that all relationships definitely require work but you are special and you do deserve to be treasured and not treated poorly, so if he is not open to talking about it and making a change, the best solution may be to leave him. Also, couples counseling (if he is open to it) can be very helpful because they can help you get to the root of a problem and learn how to communicate better. Good luck!
May 17, 2019 @ 12:31 pm


Responding to my post we been together for about 8 years.
May 17, 2019 @ 02:32 pm

Let him go!

Its always hard to let someone go in the moment, but it gets easier with time. If he doesn't respect you now, he never will. Alalow yourself to be free from lying and manipulating and find someone who treats you like the queen you are!
May 18, 2019 @ 12:02 am

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