I dig him but I don't know how he feels about me

on Apr 13, 2013 @ 12:43 am

There's this guy. I know him through my friend. When I first met him I thought he was attractive but I didn't really think about him that much. We had talked a few times at the gym and a couple times at lunch but, again, it wasn't anything that stuck in my mind, Yesterday, however, he let me interview him for an assignment I had in one of my classes and now I think he's pretty much...amazing?

The problem is I don't really know how he feels about me. We scheduled the interview and met at school and he was dressed nicely (button up shirt, nice shoes), he laughed a lot, and he said he'd try to make it to this thing at my friends house tomorrow night. I don't know what to think.

I'll be honest- I'm a little heavier and, while I'm pretty laid back and funny, I know personality isn't everything. So I now I don't know if he's just being nice or if he's interested.

Help, please? 

3 Replies

Wait to see what happens... on Apr 14, 2013 @ 11:15 pm

Its very confusing how guys tend to show their feelings whether they like you as a friend or they really like you..The same thing has happen to me when I like a guy and I start questioning if he likes me or not, what I do is wait awhile to see what happens but not too long and maybe give him hints so he can know that you like him (flirting).. Make it clear to him that you like him because when you eventually tell him you like him he might tell you he just likes you as friend...
Good luck. :)

If he likes you, he'll show it on Apr 15, 2013 @ 12:00 pm

I think it's too early to know whether or not he likes you in that way. He may not even know himself. It takes time to figure out in what way you like someone. Give it some time and in the mean time, just be your wonderful self! Show him your personality and how great you are. I firmly believe that if a guy likes you, he'll show it and let you know and don't be afraid to show it back. If he doesn't show he likes you and he does, then he's scared and immature and you wouldn't want to be with someone like that anyway.

If it comes to this point, I don't think there's anything wrong with just saying, hey- I like you, this is how I feel. Its scary, yes, but what's the worst that can happen? They say, sorry I don't feel that way and you move on to someone who appreciates you! You don't have anything to lose! Good luck!

Tell him? on Apr 20, 2013 @ 10:45 am

Yeah, I am with alex here! If the time feels right, and you're confident about how you feel, tell him how you feel and ask him out. No shame in doing so.

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