I don't want to be a......

on Jul 31, 2009 @ 01:40 pm

30 year old virgin!!! I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend or been on a date, and am starting to worry a bit. It's not that I can't find guys that like me, but I can't find guys I like (unless they're taken or uninterested). Any ideas for me?

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Ali de Bold
You have 10 years on Jul 31, 2009 @ 11:24 pm

I don't think you need to worry about this.

#1. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing. There is value in not giving yourself away to the wrong guy. Focus on enjoying life - there is plenty of time to fall in love.

#2. You are only 20. See point #1 ;)

The best thing you can do is focus on enjoying life and exploring the interests you have. It's easier to meet someone with common interests if you engage in activities you enjoy.

Good luck :)

It's a good thing! on Aug 01, 2009 @ 12:58 am

I'm 21, I lost my virginity when I was 19, not too far off from you...I've still only slept with one guy, and it made it that more special for me. He was also a virgin too, so it was nice. :) And if you find a guy who truly loves you, he'll love that you're going to be sharing such a special moment with only him...If he doesn't appreciate it, he's not worth giving that gift to. :P Good luck chickie!

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