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I need advice


I  met someone in the neighborhood one day in August while walking around my neighborhood. My dad knows him and he’s a friend of my uncles, they both went on a fishing trip some years ago at his camp. We went out before Christmas and I think things went well. He’s older than me, still works has a busy job with lots of overtime sometimes. He has kids that keep him busy too. It’s been hard getting together because of this. We have been texting since about September and we’re supposed to be going out again but we keep hitting road blocks. Either his job or a bad back. About two weeks ago he never sent any messages and after a couple days I text him to see if he was ok. He answered back he was dealing with a family issue and he would contact me when things settled down. If I hadn’t sent the message I would still be waiting. We have text every night for quite awhile. I’m wondering if I should send a message or just wait? So many things have been going thru my mind it’s driving me crazy. I’m pretty sure he’s quite interested in this going further but I need advice...
Feb 05, 2021 @ 11:24 am

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I'd just give him some space. *IF* he's interested, he will make the effort to contact you when things have been dealt with. Pushing the issue could just make him less interested.
Feb 06, 2021 @ 05:06 am

just give him space

I would give him space as he did contact you to say he would contact you when things settle down
if he doesn't contact you he obviously wasn't interested in going further and was being polite but if he is interested he will contact you when he is in the right frame of mind
Feb 06, 2021 @ 05:31 am


He didn’t contact me, I contacted him. Just waiting now to see if it goes anywhere.. thanks ladies 😊
Feb 06, 2021 @ 05:55 am

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