I Need My Space

on Sep 29, 2015 @ 06:09 pm

It's Saturday night and your night is planned with hubby/boyfriend for a nice night at home; just you two. Doorbell rings,unexpected visitor arrives. What would you do? I just smile and graciously say nice to see you, but this is not a good time,date night you know. Seems to work.

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Sandra Ribeiro
i need my space on Sep 29, 2015 @ 09:13 pm

I would do the same

I NEED MY SPACE on Sep 30, 2015 @ 01:12 pm

I would never be rude or hurt a guest that comes to my home. I have a whole life time hopefully with my partner.

I Need My Space on Sep 30, 2015 @ 01:28 pm

No Chrissy, it can be done without rudeness. As I said,it can be handled gracefully and a planned ahead special time should not be interrupted.

I Need My Space on Sep 30, 2015 @ 01:31 pm

Good. Noones feelings need to be hurt if handled tactfully without rudeness.Interesting to know you'd do the same Sandra

. on Oct 01, 2015 @ 08:01 am

I don't like unexpected guests..people should call before they come over

<3 on Oct 01, 2015 @ 08:07 am

at least don't surprise people on a Saturday night lol

hey on Oct 01, 2015 @ 12:29 pm

The person probably just doesnt want to be lonely. Just say hey we can hang for a bit but then we need some a lone time

Yikes on Oct 13, 2015 @ 10:32 am

I have never had people stop over uninvited - I will get a call or text from someone if they are in the area but if I'm spending quality time with the husband I tell them that and no one has ever been offended. I think if someone shows up unexpected or uninvited they would expect you to turn them away if your not up for hosting them!

What doorbell? on Oct 13, 2015 @ 12:50 pm

We just don't answer the door if we aren't expecting someone.

The dogs answer for us, and we just stay put.

We are also both introverts, and suffer from sleeping issues, so are generally fatigued. Our friends and family know better than to arrive unexpectedly.

If they text or call, we would politely decline if we aren't up to visitors.


Hmm on Oct 15, 2015 @ 05:58 pm

I just won't open the door :P Act like no one is home ... I know the feeling though, specially when it come to the weekend and you finally get that relaxation time with your special one...

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