on Jan 13, 2008 @ 06:20 pm|
my guy and i are sexually active,but the thing that keeps us from exploring is,well,ME!i am so shy to initiate anything or suggest something new.i cant seem to think how some women can be so open.any tips?how do i overcome this shyness
|my experience on Jan 13, 2008 @ 06:51 pm|
I've only opened up and gotten over my shyness with my current boyfriend - before him I was painfully shy about *everything*. He's a very sweet, patient, encouraging guy, and I know that helped me open up. Honestly I am not sure what changed though; just somewhere along the line I was comfortable enough with him that I could say and do the things I thought about. Yeah at first I always blushed and giggled and got all embarrassed over it. Heck there are still times I do that. But his reactions assured me I have got nothing to be embarrassed about - and that's encouraged me to tell him the things I think about. If I do think up something I find I don't have the nerve to say, I just show my boyfriend what I want instead. When words are too difficult, body language is a very good way to communicate.
|Just Do It on Jan 13, 2008 @ 09:46 pm|
Open up and take charge the worst that could happen is that you are happy in the bedroom. You might want to hold off on the latex zipper mask until he ha a chance to adjust :).