In his pants??


I don't know what to do! My boyfriend and I have gone pretty far and we have talked about having sex, he said he's definitely ready for sex and so am. He said that "when it happens, it happens". He said this about a month ago. I have made several advances towards him and he has cock blocked me all 3 times! It's like he's been saying one things but when I try anything he just pushes me away. What do I do? :(
Dec 12, 2011 @ 12:06 am

6 Replies


Talk to him

If this is his first time with anyone he may just be a
little worry about how he may perform and doesn’t want to be embarrassed.
Talking is always the best thing to do in any relationship. When the talking
stopped then you know you have a big problem.

Dec 12, 2011 @ 02:20 pm

are you sure....

he's straight?
Dec 13, 2011 @ 12:07 pm
Ali de Bold

How old are you guys?

Sorry if I'm way off here but are you both young? Is it both of your first time? That would explain it for me. Also, I know guys have this reputation for being total horn dogs, but there are some men out there that want to wait for the right moment or even marriage. Maybe he's one of those? If so, that's a good thing right?
Dec 14, 2011 @ 06:36 pm


Totally agree with Ali.. I was about to write just that! :-) If he's one of those rare guys, that's awesome!! right? Talk to him about it very honestly, and make sure he knows there's no censure or pressure from your side. Find out where he stands. Imo sex isn't a release that should be taken lightly. Neither side should feel any sort of pressure to perform.
Dec 15, 2011 @ 10:33 am


Well, it seems to me like this is just a case of the nerves.

I am assuming, from what I got in your description, that this is both your first times and that has a lot to do with it I am sure. He is right- it will happen when it happens so just relax for now and be honest with him. If it is really worrying you, then open up about it with him. It's probably a sensitive issue though, so I don't think I would press it too much, be sure to not to put too much pressure on him.

I am assuming you're both still young so be sure that you are definitely ready for this and consider that you'll always have time for this so slow down and enjoy yourself!
Dec 15, 2011 @ 11:46 am

Taking the respectful stance?

Some guys, even if they want to have sex with you, will put it off because they respect you in a way they may have a hard time expressing. Maybe he wants to make sure that you are 100% sure about your decision, or are not feeling pressured to do so (because others around you are doing it)... don't take it as a bad thing... if he's still there, he does care. Wait it out and see...
Jan 03, 2012 @ 09:56 pm

Leave A Reply