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is he going to resent me?

Anonymous

my boyfriend and his guy friends are planning to go to malaysia for the grand prix in this coming march.he is the only one in a relationship and all the others are single and sometimes dont respect the fact that he has a gf...i trust my boyfriend completely,but it iritates me knowing they wont think twice about bringing girls over.if i bring this to his attention,im scared he his going to think i am keeping him from this opportunity to travel?i feel i might iritate him but i need to tell him how i feel
Jan 18, 2008 @ 05:18 pm

6 Replies


Ali de Bold

talk to him

I don't think you should ever be afraid to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. Don't get emotional about it, just tell him simply that you have this concern and see what he says. Only you know if you can trust him out with the guys. Even if his friends don't respect your relationship they can't force him to do something he doesn't want to do. The important thing is to be matter of fact about it. Don't get emotional or whiny just tell him plainly your concerns and see how he deals with it. Good luck!
Jan 18, 2008 @ 07:00 pm
Feisty Redhead

what she said

I agree with misschickie. Just calmly voice your concerns to him and he should be understanding and not upset with you in any way for it. Honesty and open communication is very important to a relationship and you shouldn't be afraid to tell your boyfriend when you have concerns about something.
Jan 18, 2008 @ 07:29 pm
hunter_jc

Well...

From a Grand Prix fan and guy point of view. He is definitely going for it just for the race. I wish i can go myself but who has the time to waste. Anyway I think that if he does love you and care about you here, he is going to behave when he is there. I think movies are stereotyping men to be bad in general. On the other hand, I think it is the opposite for women. Women always like to think and then suddenly a guy would be out of a girlfriend.
Jan 18, 2008 @ 10:40 pm
Ali de Bold

Whooo the guy perspective!

So great to get another point of view here! Welcome, hunter_jc!
Jan 19, 2008 @ 12:55 am
hunter_jc

Thanks

So happy to join this site.
Jan 19, 2008 @ 01:06 am
Anonymous

yup u guys are right

thanks for your advice...i'll be speaking to him soon.makes me feel even better that i got a guy's perspective.thank u
Jan 19, 2008 @ 06:26 am

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