Is this wrong??


So when I was in 11th and 12th I used to mess around (just kissing no sex) with this guy..At first I didst care for him until later on...So I wanted to have a serious relationship with him but I knew that wasn't going to happen, since I started to hear rumors that he was looking for girls to mess around.. I recently cut him off my life after he texted me saying "We should really get a hotel together" after I specifically told him I wasn't going to have sex with him (I only have sex with guys when I feel I'm in a serious relationship).. I was really angry with him so i told him that if he wants to only have sex with me then he should stop talking to me...and he did.. So he has a twin brother he reached out to me in facebook and we been talking..His much nicer and doesn't always talk about sex like how his brother did...The problem with him is when i text him he doesn't know how to keep a conversation going, but it's probably because we haven't see each other..and the reason we haven't is because I'm scared to tell him about his brother and I....What should I do???
Feb 14, 2013 @ 08:23 pm

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the twin brother! that's tricky.

don't know what to say, but hope a good thing comes out of it.
Feb 14, 2013 @ 08:34 pm

Sounds complicated!

Have you never met his twin brother? Or just haven't necessarily "hung out" with him like you have his twin?
(just curious, because if you know both of them then there's a good chance they both talk about you...just saying. Boys will be boys, and especially twins, they must be close)

If you seem to like this new guy though and he's generally interested in you, you should tell him about fooling around with his brother. Just because if anything were to happen between you and him, he would probably feel lied to and betrayed if he went into it not knowing that information! So be upfront, and if he backs off then you're probably better off anyway. If he's okay with it though, then best of luck!

(the original brother sounds like an a** though, so good job getting rid of him haha! hopefully you have better luck with his twin)
Feb 14, 2013 @ 08:52 pm

Sounds complicated! Dear laced...

I know both of them because we attended the same high school together.. I know the second twin (the nice one) because we had a class together... I'm not sure if he knows about his brother and I, and was trying to find out by asking him something..let me tell you what I told him.. I told him this because it was closely related to the topic which was about "butts" so I knew he wouldn't suspect anything...This is what I told him "omg yeah I remember when there was this time I don't know if it was your brother or you but one of you kicked my butt (this was during school) and I fell down it was so embarrassing" so he said "oh yeah it was my brother (which is the mean one who I'm taking about) he told me about it you should of hit him back".. I was like" yeah I should of his so mean to me"...and he said "yeah he is and his never going to change" I thought for a minute so if he told him about that then he obvious told him that we used to mess around, but don't you think if he knew about it he would of stop talking to me.?? Yeah I will tell him before he finds out by him...
Feb 15, 2013 @ 10:04 pm

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