Babs_a_lotBeen ThereI think long distance relationships are a waste of time. I tried it once and we seemed to be so in sync. We skyped every night texted all day long and it felt so real... Until we spent more than a day together. We didn't really jive I found out and all that time wasted
I recommend anyone planning on uprooting their lives for someone they met online, to take a couple weeks vacation to visit them and see how being together for more than a few days works. Anytgign seems idealic when you spend just a couple days loving on each other. Also don't ignore warning signs. If he seems to good to be true, he is. Everyone has flaws and quirks you don't like. No one is your perfect person.
Now for anyone who thinks that none of the above applies to them or for the vey small percent of people who are in a long distance relationship that will actually make it, we use to play games or watch a movie on hangouts together (Idk which others sites you can do so in) we camped outside one night with our laptops and that was surprisingly fun. You just have to get creative
5 years ago I met the love of my life in the town I live it because I went out and started trying to meet people and got off the messenger and chat areas and put my computer away. I wanted substance and someone to feel and I am so happy I did
Like I said yes I know some work out but most don't but if you are all in just be careful and listen to your gut always
Good luck and I am not being negative or critizing anyone, this is just my opinion on it
Jul 14, 2019 @ 08:07 am