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My bf sleeps on the couch!!


So my bf and I have been together for 4 years now. Living together for 3. Every night he choses to fall asleep on the couch and when he is awake and i twll him that im going to bed he just stays downstairs. I am sooo furious. It makes me feel like hes lost intrest, doesn't find me attractive anymore....ive tried talking to him about it but all he says is he likes falling to the tv or that hes sorry because he fell asleep...pleaae help! I dont know what to do anymore:(
Nov 26, 2019 @ 09:50 pm

3 Replies


Sorry to hear that

Hi lovely,

I'm sorry to hear that this is happening.

Maybe try talking again, establish why he would rather fall asleep on the sofa than be in bed with you?

If it is just that he doesn't mean to, then don't take it personally. If there is another reason, then at least you know and can work on it.

Make sure you let him know how it's making you feel too, if he cares about your feelings, he would try to not do it!

I hope you work things out and are okay!
Nov 27, 2019 @ 10:15 am


Do you have a TV in the bedroom? Is that a compromise you could make if you don't?
Nov 27, 2019 @ 01:17 pm

I feel your pain

I'm going through the same thing with my husband...we've been together for almost 9 years and hes spent more than the last year sleeping on the couch...apparently our brand new extremely comfy bed is uncomfortable....but my biggest issue about it is that hes accusing me of being distant and different when its him that's pulling away in more ways than just the couch thing...I get so frustrated because he actually believes that hes not doing anything different and then he goes on to say if he is its because of me...hes the one who stopped being around when he used to always be there...he even goes as far as to sit outside in the truck playing stupid games on his phone literally all day...and I dont go anywhere I'm always right here where he left me sitting alone...what is up with that Right!!
Jan 06, 2020 @ 06:44 am

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