my boyfriend writing some Chick on facebook.

on Jan 10, 2015 @ 05:28 pm

I caught my boyfriend writing some girl on Facebook. Telling he will give her a massage with HOT massage oil .... Should I confront him ?  Leave Him ?  Confront Her ?


18 Replies

ask on Jan 10, 2015 @ 10:50 pm

I would say confront him and see what the hell he thinks he's doing. If you don't like his answer, leave him. Sounds sketchy at best but better make sure first.

dont let it linger on Jan 14, 2015 @ 10:36 am

Girl, i am just saying if you do feel uncomfortable with this then letting it just wonder around your mind until something else happens will only hurt more in the long run! the #1 rule in relationship is trust so if you don't trust him then why are you even with him. talk it out and see if you two are on the same page. who knows it could just be innocent.

you got this girl!!! head up! :D

I personally think ... on Jan 14, 2015 @ 11:24 am

Definatly confront him but in a calm way , even if things get heated , try to stay calm listened and if things don't match up , or seem like its not making since of thins Ide suggest some time part so he can get his " story " straight . Remember no one deserves to be lied to trust is huge , and without that u may start to loose respect for each other , I hope u can work things out , but in all end u do what makes sense to you and be honest to yourself , it's not worth being unhappy or untruth worthy of someone , whenu can give your time to someone who you can trust and love effortlessly and receive the same in return. Sounds to me like he doesint deserve you , but I don't know u , or your man so , IDE just talk about it and if things get sour take some time annnd if things don't get better , cut the bad fruit of the tree make the sacrifice , you'll end up happy not hurt ... Trust.

Ask on Jan 16, 2015 @ 08:34 am

Hi,I would confront him,but in a nice way,depending on what he says,if you feel like you should confront the girl than also do that in a nice way,just ask her a few questions and see what she has to say,follow your heart.Hope everything works out for you :)

If a boyfriend is doing this - on Jan 16, 2015 @ 04:22 pm

If your boyfriend is doing this I can assure you he is probably going to become the type of husband that will do this....and when/if there are kids, financial stresses, fights and etc that are the normal part of marriage he is likely the type to act on this....If he can't maintain the monogamy at the early part of the relationship it is time to move on for your own sake.

Time to Let him go! on Jan 29, 2015 @ 03:25 pm

Don't confront her. She has no loyalty to you. Its him that is in the relationship and him that is fully responsible. If he is doing this now, it sort of makes you wonder how long and how many times has he been doing this. If its something you can live with than let it go but if you cant than that is your answer.
Hope you figure it out.

Ali de Bold
Please tell me you shut this down on Jan 29, 2015 @ 04:00 pm

There is no possible excuse that would make this acceptable.

DUMP HIM! But first, message the scummy-slut who he has been talking with. on Feb 08, 2015 @ 03:10 am

If it was me, before I explode in his face and end our relationship I would: confront tactfully and message her "This is (X) girlfriend, how do you know my boyfriend and how long has he been sending these type of messages to you?"

If she doesn't reply, for your own satisfaction and revenge, send her a message such as:
What scummy woman allows other peoples boyfriends to message them about rubbing their oily hands on their body? You're a disgusting slag. He can go fuck himself, now I've realised he spends his pathetic spare time messaging random slags looking to get his dick extra wet on the weekends. Women like you are what's wrong with the world, horrible little slut. You can finger your grubby cunt over him all you want now you disgusting mess. Yuck.

Sorry for my language! But If I was messaging someone elses boyfriend, I would feel embarrassed if I received a message like that.

Now for him:

END IT. First, explain to him how disappointed and shocked you were to find that he had been messaging random slags on the internet to rub his hands on them?! He has broken the trust between you, you're glad you saw the message as it's given you insight into how little he values your relationship. And then BREAK UP WITH HIM. Don't hesitate, keep strong. Block him on all social media, don't talk to him and MOVE ON. He will regret it so much and be hurt from the sudden break up and you can take satisfaction in that. Knowing what he was prepared to do behind your back.

Thank god you saw this message now and not late on in the relationship.

No one should be treated like that, this is not what a relationship is.

Find someone who respects you and your relationship, I wish you all the luck!

My Boyfriend on Feb 10, 2015 @ 02:35 am

I really hope you get rid of him you deserve so much better. Believe me there are nice guys out there. I hope you truly meet someone who you can trust and love.

What a douche on Feb 10, 2015 @ 09:05 pm

There should be no excuse for this. Dont waste your time darling!

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