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My boyfriend’s sister likes his ex girlfriend more than me


I am in a middle of a situation between my boyfriend’s sister and his ex girlfriend. Recently we got back together when he cheated on me and her. I know I should of not taken him back but I love him way too much. Not only because he is the father of my child but I feel we have this bond before I realized I was having his baby. But the topic is about his sister. I was telling his ex girlfriend to block us and to get out of our life. After me texting his ex girlfriend a lot of crap that I needed to tell her. She texts his sister for me to leave her alone and I told her that I said for her to block us and that I’m done. It gets me so mad that she came back into our life. Not only that but my boyfriend let that woman sleep next to my daughter, they werent even together not even 2 months. He already introduced her to my daughter. That wasn’t right. I haven’t even introduced to other guys. But his sister starts texting me to leave her alone and I said. I already did. I’m not going to bother her. She told me I’ll have her back any day. When me and my boyfriend were very happing during the years being together. I would think he would be looking for his ex girlfriend. It was all in my head and his sister would tell me that I don’t need to worry about her because she’s a slut, a whore, a bitch and she’s nothing. I told her then why do you follow her on Instagram and Facebook. She said I’m friends with her because I’m judging being nosy person in her life. But til this day now she says “I’ll have her back any day” really hurt me because of a couple of years ago she was saying all this crap and she was saying this crap before a month me and my boyfriend splitted up. I don’t understand why she would be like this with me when I have not done nothing wrong to her. I wanted to be close to her but she’s not the type of person you want to be friends with. She’s an Aquarius. Which means she rude, she gets her ways all the time, she says this and that but she doesn’t stick to it. She lies and manipulates. I wanna hurt my boyfriend’s sister but I don’t want too because were family. I don’t want to have a bad relationship with his family. She wants to hurt me. What do I do? Can someone help me.
Jan 28, 2019 @ 04:07 pm

2 Replies



This is a pickle for sure. Sounds like the sister may just not want to get involved in the whole thing but totally is going about it the wrong way.
I’m sorry to hear about all this drama.
Jan 28, 2019 @ 08:31 pm

toxic situation

This is a non-win in any direction. Have you thought about maybe setting boundaries with your ex when it comes to your child. Your child's aunt sounds like a person that you will never be able to trust, so try not to engage in any conversation other than talking about your child, anything else is just toxic and unhealthy and might lead into trouble. Just my opinion.
You need to try to find a healthy relationship regardless if it romantic or just on a friendly basis. The only way you will ever be in a "healthy" mind set, you need to find love and respect for yourself.
Maybe try yoga, or join a gym and try to clear your mind, relax your body, and just feel rejuvenated. If you don't have your healthy, or well being.... it will make life a little difficult.
Feb 15, 2019 @ 05:02 pm

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