New to this postin thing..but confused about a guy

on Apr 05, 2009 @ 06:51 pm

Met this guy..had a good connection when we first met. The first time we hung out together ALONE we slept together...I know it's too early, but I still really like him. We hung out like 4 times after that. He said he didn't want to have a relationship until he got a he has a job. I ask him why he doesn't call that much, he says I don't either. He told me about how they have a position open on a basketball team down in Fl and was hooking me up with the girls number. But the last time I called, he said hell call right back. Never did, and that night I texted him..I said lemme no straight out if you have a girlfriend or not cuz I don't wanna waste my time. It ended up in Do what you want miss..have a great life..somethin like that. Really confused?? Should I call him? He told me over and over that he wasn't here to hurt me and he knows how to treat a women. Then why isn't he acting like it?

7 Replies

Miss Bee
He's not interested on Apr 05, 2009 @ 08:26 pm

and neither should you be. He's giving clear signs that he does not want a relationship without actually coming out and saying it to your face. As hard as it is you have to move on from him and live your life because he does not matter. Don't wait around for a guy who cannot commit to you. He's immature move on and a guy will come along who is mature and ready for a relationship.

Thank you ... on Apr 05, 2009 @ 10:27 pm



Miss Bee
no problem:) on Apr 05, 2009 @ 11:09 pm

I had to learn the same hard lesson


Agreed on Apr 05, 2009 @ 11:22 pm

It seems he's not interested.

awww on Apr 06, 2009 @ 05:01 am

I am sorry to hear about that but it sounds like he is not interested. I would leave it alone. Take care!

Ali de Bold
Sounds like a player on Apr 06, 2009 @ 09:24 am

The best players are the ones who talk all the time about how great
they are with women, how they know how to treat them, how much the love
their mothers, blah blah blah and then as soon as they get what they
want (i.e you sleep with them) they aren't available. These guys
should not be taken at face value. They should be judged on their
actions. His actions say he is not worth your time.

So true... on Apr 06, 2009 @ 02:48 pm

definately agree that someone should be judged by their actions..Its hard sometimes when you just want to believe them. Thank you guys!


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