OMG Porn Again?

Anonymous

Does your man watch this a lot? I know it's a touchy subject for some. My question I guess is....why does he have to watch it? Is it because his sex life has become mundane? Could be any number of reasons, but I think it can lead to a serious problem in a relationship.For me, it's as bad as cheating
Oct 15, 2015 @ 09:30 pm

34 Replies

ashleyesgaio

I agree

I totally agree, since me and my man have been together, he hasn't watched porn (trust me i know former, i'm crazy lmao).
I've asked him this question and he says that it's because when we are not around they need something to help them out. Maybe if they have photos or videos to watch of the two of you, he may stop watching it ?
Oct 15, 2015 @ 10:35 pm
Barbiebelt

Porn

Can I ask, how old are you? I know..you think this has nothing to do with the problem...and I'll have a ten page answer later, but first, tell me how old are you and how long have y'all been married?
Oct 16, 2015 @ 01:42 am
Anonymous

porn

Doesn't matter how old one is or how long they've been together.If the woman takes care of herself and looks great, is explorative in bed, and the list goes on; porn is not needed Only MY opinion Barbiebelt No offence
Oct 16, 2015 @ 02:33 am
Barbiebelt

Porn

I 100% agree.....but when I was much younger I would freak out about it....now, I know men jerk off no matter how well their woman treats them and they look at porn! we can't let it bother us....they are men and most of them are pigs! I learned a long time ago honesty is much better than them lying about it...I don't like porn either, but if hubby watches it...oh well he watches it....we can't stop them, so why worry or fight about it they are either gonna watch or not!
Oct 16, 2015 @ 03:43 am
martac

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I say men will be men. I don't take it personally. It's just a part of
being a guy. I would laugh it off unless it's constant than I would say
something to him and tell him it's bothering you
Oct 16, 2015 @ 07:03 am
crystaljam

Meh

It doesn't bother me - sometimes we watch it together if we're getting in the mood as well.

If someone was watching it for hours on end, I'd be concerned, but to help with the visual aspect of sexuality, I'm ok with it.

I even had tapes (not my own) when I was younger.

I don't understand the faux pas against it.

Oct 16, 2015 @ 10:36 am
jcb75

Nope

I'm with martac and crystaljam, it's really not a big deal.

But saying that a woman needs to always dress up and be explorative in the bedroom is a form of victim shaming to me. If a dude gets off by watching other people bump naughty bits, it is NOT his partner's "fault"
Oct 16, 2015 @ 11:44 am
Sandra Ribeiro

Not a big deal

I watch it with my fiancee1 Not an issue
Oct 16, 2015 @ 12:12 pm
MayaLopez

Nope

I know he watches it when I am not around, I watch it when he is not around, its all good :)
Oct 16, 2015 @ 12:41 pm
Anonymous

jcb

Whoa pretty cheeky today; good for you. I think a woman that tries new things and lets her man know what she wants has nothing at all to do with victim No offence
Oct 16, 2015 @ 12:46 pm

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