Online dating questions


I have been separated for over a year and my friends encouraged me to join the online dating sites. I did, and for the most part, it has been fun talking with new people. But I do find a lot of these men are just looking to 'hook up', and even though I state quite specifically on my profile that I am not into that, a lot of them still are trying for that after talking with me for a few minutes. Any advice out there about this? Should I give up on finding a nice guy online?

Jan 05, 2016 @ 08:50 am

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Don't give up. I think it may depend on the type of site you're looking on. I suggest maybe trying a site you need to pay a membership for? I think guys are more likely to take it seriously if they are paying to use the service.
Jan 05, 2016 @ 09:54 am


Thanks! I'm finding it a bit scary. Lol. This is a whole new way of dating. Been a long time for me.
Jan 05, 2016 @ 10:25 am


I have done the online dating thing for a long time and what I've learned is not to expect too much but have fun with it. A lot of these guys will tell you what you want to hear and still wanna only hook up. I have met a few good ones that I ended up being good friends with but no love connections. I am extremely picky though lol. Best of luck with it. Have fun with it and you never say never
Jan 05, 2016 @ 10:29 am


Thank you!! I will keep at it

Jan 05, 2016 @ 10:45 am

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