planning first 3sum with my wife for her bday


I have asked my wife that I would like to give her a 3some experience with me and another guy for her bday. We have a almost perfect 12 years strong relationship, im not jealous and look at it as just to please her everyway possible. We already have great sex. I look at it as continuing to learn about each other. That how I carry my marriage, always want to learn more about your panter everyday and everyway. My wife has only had 2 sexual relationships. Me and her highschool sweatheart. Nothing wild whatever. So she definitely shy and nervous. She has agreed to do it after discussing and reading about it more. We have practiced with her fantasizing the other guy with her toys during sex and her orgaism is more intense, wetter, and she is really coming along and opening up more. It is starting to get obvious she is getting curious. That is a good sign. This experience would be the craziest thing she has ever done. And I would be more than happy to be the one to show her this thrill.and emotions since I know her inicent sexual past. Bottom line i want to give her the experience for her pleasure and not mine. Any suggestions how to make the experiance more intense and fun for her?
Feb 26, 2013 @ 10:29 am

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Ali de Bold


I'm not sure if you are serious or not but I don't see how this is ever a good idea - especially for married couples who have made a public commitment to be monogamous.
Feb 26, 2013 @ 02:47 pm

this is your idea, so ...

What I'm confused about is why you are giving this to your wife for her birthday. The way you explained this it sounds like you had to convince her... so who is the one who really wants this? I'm just saying.

I also don't think this will strengthen your relationship. Plural/open relationships are rare for a reason, and you should be prepared for the possibility that this could cause problems in your marriage - huge problems.
Feb 26, 2013 @ 04:16 pm

Your fantasy. Not hers!

Honestly, to me it sounds like you want this experience - and are using the her birthday as a way to get what you have always wanted to do. Especially since you have to coax her?...
Feb 27, 2013 @ 10:52 am

I agree..

That's weird to me. I feel bad for your wife :(
Feb 27, 2013 @ 12:55 pm

toys are not boys

Listen buddy, practicing with toys is a lot different than practicing with other men with real peni.

but it is still a sweet idea.
enjoy the ride and remember this:

you picked an extra man bc you didnt want an extra boob
and when you take it in the butt, dont forget the lube.

happy cock hunting!

Feb 27, 2013 @ 09:23 pm

Bad idea

yeah it does sound that you are the one who wants a 3 some..If she didn't ask to have a 3 some in the first place for her b-day that means she is happy how things are between yall...
Mar 10, 2013 @ 07:25 pm

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