Second Date


Alright ladies...
What happens after the first date went really well.
And he asks you to do dinner next time.
Who pays for the second date?
Jun 28, 2009 @ 09:30 am

7 Replies


He does.

He asked you out on the date. You guys got along really well. Well enough that he wants another try to impress you. Let him take you out and show you what he's got. This is also your time to show him what you got also. Dress up a little. Share good jokes and stories. The second date is the best time to really try to get to know someone. The uncertainty of a first date should make this one breezy and fun.

Good luck and all the best! I'm sure you will have a blast!
Jun 28, 2009 @ 10:38 am
Ali de Bold

Probably him...

We did a video on this subject and asked random men and women at the
mall who they thought should pay. See what they said...
Jun 28, 2009 @ 02:01 pm


misslissa, that is great advice. I think you are right.
That video is so funny. Thanks mc for sharing it, MC! The message there was pretty much that men should pay for date #1. But it does raise some questions about who should pay for date #2.... responses were mixed!
Jun 28, 2009 @ 03:03 pm


I would say that he should probably pay...especially if he did the asking.
Jun 28, 2009 @ 06:26 pm


I say he should pay b/c he asked, but I don't think that takes you off the hook completely. I would speak up when the bill comes, especially if he takes it, and kindly ask him what you owe. If he's a good guy, worth keeping around for date #3, he'll tell you its on him. You can offer to pay the tip. He may or may not go for that. But either way, I'm sure he'll appreciate the gesture of stepping up.

If he tells you what your half of the bill is, shell it out, and do some thinking when you get home to consider how much you like him and how you approach dating and paying.

If you get to date #3, I think you should do the asking and this time try to make it all be on you! ;-)

Have fun!
Jun 28, 2009 @ 09:24 pm


Very basic: you reach for your wallet, as he reaches for his. Watch his reaction. Offer to split it. It's only fair. If he is a gentleman, he will say no, I'll insist on splitting. It's called the "second date dance"
Jun 30, 2009 @ 12:54 pm


That is pretty much what I have done in the past Sassy! Good call!
Jun 30, 2009 @ 03:10 pm

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