THE BIG "O"

Anonymous

Ok Chicks...this is a personal one but I'm curious
I have had sex for a long time and with several partners and yet I've never had an orgasm during intercourse. Please tell me I'm not the only one.
Jan 08, 2016 @ 09:57 am

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KrissiC

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I'm sorry to Hear that you've never experienced this! Maybe you and your partner could try some toys aimed particularly at a woman's pleasure? Or try figuring out on your own what makes you feel good and relay that information to your partner?
Jan 08, 2016 @ 11:26 am
jcb75

Not the only one

It's quite common for a woman not to climax during intercourse alone. Many require fingers and mouths and stuff to help you along. When I'm with a guy, foreplay is usually "for me," to get me close, or to climax. Then I can just enjoy the act itself and not worry how "close" I'm getting.
Jan 08, 2016 @ 11:42 am
charbella2

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I think you just need to find the right positions and other things that will help you along. It will come in time :)
Jan 08, 2016 @ 12:54 pm
wonderwhatif

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As the other ladies say, it usually takes direct clitoral stimulation for the majority of women to achieve orgasm during intercourse.

Sorry for the directness, but have you achieved orgasm solo? If not, purchase a vibrator discretely online and learn your own body which will help you teach your partner!

I have interstitial cystitis, which means I have pain during penetrative sex, so I have to use clitoral stimulation or the pain is too bad, yet despite this I have still achieve orgasm during multiple times. For me I find closing my legs around my partner and stretching them out behind him achieves the best position.

If you are plus size, you might also need to utilise some pillows to get into more comfortable positions. Good luck!
Jan 08, 2016 @ 05:43 pm
Angelwingsx2

Speaking of Cheerioooooooooooo's

A little hard to discuss about but,we are all women and we all have needs!!!!, heck even me, lol. I should be done with it by now.I'm probably the oldest person on this site but hey,I'm human to.I would suggest you Google your question to get the answer you are looking for.I have one every time we are intimate,even if it is only a couple times a month.You are missing out on something that every woman should experience in their life time.I didn't before, until I met my Husband and I never look back.Why would I?Google your question anonymous and you should get your answer,good luck.
Jan 10, 2016 @ 03:06 pm

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