Valentines Day


This is the first Valentines day EVER that I will be doing something. Even though its just with a guy I really like (but are just friends) I'm super excited. Does him asking if I want to go somewhere mean he likes me? He gets a little weird when I mention another guy.
Feb 10, 2013 @ 10:59 pm

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I think so!

In my opinion, I think so! He could of asked you to just do something on Friday, but he chose to wait and make it for Valentine's Day.. That's my hint. Maybe it's nothing, but I dunno!
Feb 11, 2013 @ 07:11 am

I agree with Katelyn

Seems like there's something going on! I think that if he wanted to stay friends, he would avoid hanging out on Valentine's Day. But he went for it... maybe you should too!

Feb 11, 2013 @ 12:32 pm

Could be!

I think he could be interested.. it seems so. I suggest being open with him -- it's cliche but it's really true that being yourself will open more doors than trying to be coy. Good luck and have a great time!
Feb 11, 2013 @ 01:24 pm

more info

To be honest and to provide backstory, we use to have a bedroom relationship where e were only with each other. I caught feelings and told him and my jealousy ruined rhings. He compliments me a lot and gets weird at the mention of other guys but never comes out and tells me though he mentions other women or rather types he would like to meet. Advice? Thanks all for everything men are complicated.
Feb 11, 2013 @ 07:58 pm


It sounds like he may like you as more than just friends, but I think maybe you should proceed with caution. From what you're saying, you guys seem kind of on/off and it's kind of seems like he doesn't want to commit and you do. If you want something and he can't give it to you, it's a failure on his part. But it is a good sign that he asked you to do something on Valentines Day, that seems like a pretty clear signal. Just remember, if he likes you, he will let you know and if he doesn't and he's too scared then you don't want to be with someone like that anyways.

Don't go in with raised expectations, just let it happen naturally and see how it plays out, good luck!
Feb 12, 2013 @ 11:10 am


Yeah, the whole friends with benefits usually ends up complicated in the end. It's hard to keep feelings out of the picture, since it's such a strong bond in the moment.

Make sure to keep us updated!
Feb 12, 2013 @ 12:38 pm

Don't over think

I had a similar situation and I think a guy who can ask you out for V day is great. This means there is something seriously there. But honestly, if you look at it too seriously too early you might scare him off and any interest you have in him. At this point, its best not to overdo the fact that he asked if you want to do something. You obvi like him, you just need to be sure he does. Let him bet the one to make it serious but don't wait too long.
Feb 12, 2013 @ 04:39 pm

Sounds like it could be something...

...sounds like he likes you a lot, but maybe isn't ready for a serious commitment. I agree don't over-think it too much, just let things happen at their own pace. Its gotta be a good sign that he asked you out for valentines day though, every man HAS to know asking a girl out on v-day has romantic inclinations!!

Curious to know how it goes though! Get back to us with deets :)
Feb 14, 2013 @ 03:22 pm


Oh em gee!! So, right now he isn't working because he is a FT student and a day before the big day he played it off as if we were hanging out because its Thursday (his not busy day)..a day we usually hang out anyway. So I'm headed to his place and unusually he was rushing me asking where I was and saying hurry up "punk" (lol). I admit I was getting frustrated because he had me fooled. When I got there he came out dressed up and stared at me, took me to a real good Italian restaraunt (my fave food) I mean all out wine app food and dessert. People assumed we are a couple. Then we went to a "special store" and he let me pick out things that interested me. After a great time, a walk downtown where he showed he cares because he wouldn't let me walk on the outside closest to the street explaining if a car ran off the road it would hit him not me (awwe) he sent me home with gas money for coming. It may not sound like a whole lot to some girls but given how little others have done/cared it meant the world.
Feb 15, 2013 @ 10:08 pm


Couldn't finish my post for some reason..but now I'm confused because I asked him why he chose me of all people to spend his day with and he said I'm a good friend. What kind of man though spends nearly all his money on a friend (one who is a FT student not employed at this time) I being jerked around?
Feb 15, 2013 @ 10:10 pm

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