What are some ways to be more in the mood during sex?

jj2323asf

I've been trying for a baby, and sometimes I just don't feel that into the sex.. What are some tips to help me?  Thank you all!

karma0317

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Do you have fantasies? Maybe role playing those out without your guy knowing. Like if he's expected home at 8 you get into character before he gets home. For my friends I've told them don't have sex just for the baby process because it becomes boring. Take a break and have sex like you use to because of the excitement, joy and pleasure it brings to you. Usually when your stressing for it to happen it takes longer because your bodies can feel the stress. Other things that might help to get you exited try watching porn it's for girls too. LoL. Maybe making it different with handcuffs? Or trying new things like whip cream or honey. LoL I'm laughing because now I feel like a perv

jj2323asf

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Hmm I'll have to think that stuff through ;) I probably am just over stressing myself. I think i'll be able to go back to how things used to be. But thank you!

Shystarr79

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That is so hard to say since every relationship is different and it depends how open you are and what is accepted in your relationship. Some couples enjoy watching porn together while others are against it, there's sex toys, role playing, bondage all kinds of things. I'm very fortunate to have a high sex drive cause when we were trying to conceive I was exhausted some days waking up a four in the morning to go to work but still managed to get excited enough to do the deed every other day. My husband just knows all the right buttons to press even when I'm extremely tired. It's funny my friend was here and complaining about how her and her partner barely have sex and I told her now that I'm 33 weeks pregnant I only do it two or three times a week and she was amazed. She said even pregnant you do it more than me.lol. I thought that was a cutback. Good luck on trying to conceive.

jj2323asf

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Thank you both! & this is just the second month...

Jennymac1980

Be in the moment

We have such busy lives and especially for women (some women), sex can feel like a bit of a chore. Try to be in the moment. Put the impeding pile of dishes out of your head, stop thinking about how much work you have to do tomorrow, if your friend might want to go for coffee on Saturday...how much you like coffee, lol. As women we think WAY TOO MUCH and WAY TOO OFTEN. Oh, and foreplay foreplay foreplay. We can't be expected to be ready at the drop of a hat.

Hunty

Aphrodisiac

Try setting the mood get some chocolates and strawberries light some candles and don't focus so much on the end result let everything happen naturally and you might be surprised! :)

Khaleesi86

You or WE

Just to clarify: Are YOU trying for a baby or are WE trying for a baby? Maybe I misread, but it just sounded so inclusive, lol. Your partner is aware you're trying, yes?

Getting all dolled up usually works for me! Or a glass of wine. Or a good run.

alex099

Try new things

Foreplay is one way to start things off if that doesn`t work maybe experiment with something new visit a sex shop together and buy some fun toys and stuff like that it definitely works

shaniavanlissum

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When you feel sexy, you will want to more. Relieve stress first. Have a nice warm bath. Clear your mind. Have a romantic dinner, and dress up in some nice lingerie. Hopefully the rest will come :)