Would you ever date a married man?

martac

A friend currently is and I'm just wondering would you?
Sep 13, 2015 @ 12:16 pm

15 Replies

michelef

Seriously?

I feel like this has no responses because the only decent answer is so obvious..
Sep 16, 2015 @ 06:50 pm
crystaljam

Nope

Nope...my husband is a married man, and *I* wouldn't want anyone to be dating him but me!

If the man hasn't left his wife, he should do so before dating people. That's just rude and uncalled for on his and the other person's (the person the married person is dating) part.

There's another person (the wife) involved - no matter how bad their relationship is.
Sep 16, 2015 @ 07:43 pm
Angelwingsx2

Married Man and dating

Yes,I've dated a married man and yes,I'm married to him.The reason it doesn't bother me is ,he was separated long before I came on the scene.
Sep 16, 2015 @ 08:29 pm
jcb75

grey area

If he is still actively involved in his marriage, then definitely not. Unless he is separated and living away from his wife... no way in hell. I've been cheated on, and it sucks. No way would I intentionally make another woman feel the way I've felt.
And if he's still living with his wife don't let him fool you with "she doesn't understand me" or "we're just staying together for the kids" or "we're more like room mates than husband and wife" Odds are, he's lying.

Sorry...did not mean to come across as a "bitter Betty"...this is a sore subject, and I get kind of rant-y when it comes up lol
Sep 17, 2015 @ 12:35 pm
bethanito

Marriage

As a married woman I would hunt down any woman dating my husband, and do things for which I would probably get thrown in jail for the rest of my life. If I wasn't a married a woman, and a married man was interested in me, I would never date him unless he was in the middle of signing divorce papers and was just get the legalities out of the way. I take marriage very seriously and would a) never want to intrude on someone's relationship, and b) if a married man is willing to date outside of his marriage, then that's not someone I would want to be with as he has a clear disrespect for women.

But like I said, if he was technically married, but he and his wife were separated and just in the process of legally divorcing, then I think it's probably okay since the relationship really is over. I might be skeptical that he would be ready to get into another relationship so quickly, but I guess that is circumstantial as relationships sometimes are bad for years before finally biting the bullet so to speak, and maybe he would be ready to move on.
Sep 17, 2015 @ 01:12 pm
fredamans

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No. Marriage is a testament before God.
He is married, whether separated or not, technically he is someone else's.
If someone dated my husband, they best pray I never find out.
Sep 17, 2015 @ 01:56 pm
Kylee

No never..

It's really sad how marriage is not being taken seriously anymore.. Some people aren't seeing it as a sacred thing. You are vowing to stay with one person and one person only for the rest of your life. It's just so wrong to me to think that some people would date someone who is married. Sad what this world is coming to...
Sep 17, 2015 @ 09:56 pm
brooklingal77

Just don't!

So much dishonesty in many marriages. When all the fun and games are over, someone is hurt - a wife, a mother, children, families. There's enough single men out there, your friend needs to find one of them.
Sep 17, 2015 @ 10:39 pm
Nessi

NEVER

NO never ! if someone is married or even in a relationship they should try to work it out it says in the wedding vows ( for better or worse) there's always counselling If that man wants to have a relationship and date other woman I'm sorry but you need to be separated before dating someone. It's called respect.
Sep 18, 2015 @ 10:27 am
Cupcake

ugh

Girls who date married men have no respect. Their the mistress & sorry sweetie that's all your gonna be. & if I were in that situation.. Let's just say it wouldn't be pretty!
Sep 18, 2015 @ 02:51 pm

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