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I feel uncomfortable with my my body

Anonymous

Its been a year since I been with my boyfriend we love eachother so much. I never been with somebody that cares and is really sweet. I see myself marrying him and I never felt like this with nobody. We have our ups and downs but we always manage to get over it. So lately i been feeling a shame of myself. So the very first time he wouldn't kiss me when i gave him a blowjob i figure it out when he kept asking me to brush my teeth. I talked to him about it and we ended up figuring out a solution for both of us. The other time he wasn't giving me oral at all and he ignored me when he asked if i wanted oral and before i even responded he said " no oh okay then" after we talked about it he has been doing it more. One time i was my period and i went to go shower and he was like Im using a condom for sanitation purposes which i completely understand. But it was so weird when a little bit of blood got on his leg i thought he was going to freak but instead he just wiped it with a towel. The other time I got a cold sore on my lip i always got them when i was young so i warned him about it so he wouldn't try to kiss me. So today i got a pimple on top of my lip because i had a small pimple and i tried pooping it but i couldn't so i irritated it and it got big.. So I told him about it and his like are you sure its not herpes im like no its not. After that I told him i was on period that i wanted to shower first before having sex and he said thats fine and his like and I will like to use a condom im like okay.So we decided to take a nap first..When I woke up I went to kiss him and i can see that he kept moving back and he wasnt kissing me back. So immediately stopped and told him that im no longer in the mood for sex. So he was completely puzzled why i didnt bother telling him, I didnt want to cry infront of him (i been very stressed with summer classes and work and i only get to see him once a week) so i decided not to tell him until I calm down. By the way i week ago I had my pap smear and i asked to get tested for everything due to me working in the medical field and since i changed gynecologist and everyrhing came out negative so im completely clean and he knows. I feel uncomfortable doing anything sexually with him I'm more kinky compared to him so i always hold back. Idk if im being over dramatically but feelings get hurt when he does those things.
Jun 11, 2018 @ 06:32 pm

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Anonymous

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My husband doesn't kiss me after I've performed oral on him either - I think a lot of guys are a bit freaked out by it for some reason. Same for menstruation, any guy I've ever been with has never been interested in having sex while I was on my period (which is fine with me, usually I'm not in the mood if I'm bleeding).

Do you guys talk about your desires in the bedroom? Communication is very important so that everyone has a chance to say what they like or don't like, or even if you guys want to share your "ultimate fantasies" with each other - I think that would help clear the air.


My husband knows what my kink is, but he also knows that I don't need to have it every single time - we talk about it and if we're both ok with it, it will happen. It's very important to let him know what you want, but you also need to be open to the possibility that he might not ever want to do it for you. If he really wants to please you in the bedroom though, he should at least consider it.
Jun 14, 2018 @ 07:41 am
Anonymous

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Leave him sounds like he doesn't show you affection .. my hubby doesn't care. He kisses me even after he cums in my mouth .. you aren't being overdramatic he needs to man up
Jun 15, 2018 @ 10:02 pm
Anonymous

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And he doesn't care if I'm on my period he will give me oral the same and have sex with me without a condom .. like I said he needs to man up
Jun 15, 2018 @ 10:03 pm
Anonymous

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he sounds like a real jerk
Jul 06, 2018 @ 12:39 pm
davrina

Tough situation!

This cannot be easy. I can only suggest ... communicate, communicate, communicate. This is so important in any relationship. If things don't improve, you may need to re-evaluate whether he's the right partner for you. Good luck.
Jul 19, 2018 @ 09:50 am
Anonymous

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communicate and let him know how you feel..
a real man would accept your time of the month my hubby likes it sounds weird but he does he should show you affection and try to pleasure you stop giving it to him or trying until he makes a step
Aug 05, 2018 @ 01:28 am

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