
Anonymous
I hate my boyfriends brother.. I've tried tolerating him. but i just can't do it anymore.. what do i do??
my reasoning might not be the best one, I just can't stand the guy, he expects the world to be handed to him and when something doesn't go his way he throws this hugh fit trying to make everyone around him feel sorry for him. he takes and takes, but when you ask him for a favor he never sticks around long enough to follow through with it plus i feel he takes advantage of my guy and doesn't treat him with the respect he deseves..
an example he came over for the night but we needed to support him for that night he stayed.. then my guy asked him to clean out the car(on my guys birthday) and all of a sudden he(the brother) has to get home.. its so important he leaves..
Well i try to be nice to him when he is around, i dont give him dirty looks i talk to him, i offer him drinks, i make sure he's got everything he needs if he is staying the night, i laugh at his crappy jokes and what not..
well today he(the brother) whats to go for a trip to our home town.. my guy needs to drive him.. the brothers covering the gas.. I want to go. so i start making arrangements for me to stay at a friends house when we get there, so they can still chill and have there brother time when they get there.. well.. he stated he doesn't want to go if i go.. saying he doesn't want to spend 4 hours in a car with someone who hates him.. which is understand if i was rude to him when we where around each other and what not.. but its my car too.. :@ point being said.. im home alone while they are gone on their trip.. I said fine i won't go, cause my guy really wanted to go and we couldn't afford to pay for ourselfs to go.. brother got what he wanted again cause he through one of his little tantrums.. me.. i feel like well im pissed off for one, and its sucks being left out uninvited to go.. when i would of loved to see my family and friends.. but because he was paying.. well so i got mad.. told my guy i don't want him at the house any more.. i don't want him anywhere near me.. i don't want to talk to him, nor do i want to see him..
im putting my guy in the middle of me and his brother.. i feel bad.. but i don't know what to do.. I love him, but i can't be around his brother.. what do i do?? how do i fix this? am i being wrong for hating on him just cause i can't stand how he acts? when he never really did anything to me before today..
please help
I hate my boyfriends brother.. I've tried tolerating him. but i just can't do it anymore.. what do i do??
my reasoning might not be the best one, I just can't stand the guy, he expects the world to be handed to him and when something doesn't go his way he throws this hugh fit trying to make everyone around him feel sorry for him. he takes and takes, but when you ask him for a favor he never sticks around long enough to follow through with it plus i feel he takes advantage of my guy and doesn't treat him with the respect he deseves..
an example he came over for the night but we needed to support him for that night he stayed.. then my guy asked him to clean out the car(on my guys birthday) and all of a sudden he(the brother) has to get home.. its so important he leaves..
Well i try to be nice to him when he is around, i dont give him dirty looks i talk to him, i offer him drinks, i make sure he's got everything he needs if he is staying the night, i laugh at his crappy jokes and what not..
well today he(the brother) whats to go for a trip to our home town.. my guy needs to drive him.. the brothers covering the gas.. I want to go. so i start making arrangements for me to stay at a friends house when we get there, so they can still chill and have there brother time when they get there.. well.. he stated he doesn't want to go if i go.. saying he doesn't want to spend 4 hours in a car with someone who hates him.. which is understand if i was rude to him when we where around each other and what not.. but its my car too.. :@ point being said.. im home alone while they are gone on their trip.. I said fine i won't go, cause my guy really wanted to go and we couldn't afford to pay for ourselfs to go.. brother got what he wanted again cause he through one of his little tantrums.. me.. i feel like well im pissed off for one, and its sucks being left out uninvited to go.. when i would of loved to see my family and friends.. but because he was paying.. well so i got mad.. told my guy i don't want him at the house any more.. i don't want him anywhere near me.. i don't want to talk to him, nor do i want to see him..
im putting my guy in the middle of me and his brother.. i feel bad.. but i don't know what to do.. I love him, but i can't be around his brother.. what do i do?? how do i fix this? am i being wrong for hating on him just cause i can't stand how he acts? when he never really did anything to me before today..
please help
Feb 11, 2011 @ 08:54 pm