silvercity...I look at it as you will be spending time with each other and agree to only give or receive from each other a days per week where we do stuff, hang out etc...and that we don't want to see other ppl. We are not sharing our relationship/partnership with each other on a deeper level yet...but the potential is there.
This basically has to deal with an earlier post of a FWB relationship I was in many years ago. We were both at different points in our lives back then and we agreed that it would not have worked if we continued then. We started to hang out with each other lately and after a few times together I decided I did not want to continue this way. I found the courage to open up to him and tell him how I felt...and told him listen I'm ready to call it quits...I can't handle doing what we are doing anymore thinking that somewhere down the line I'll just end up getting hurt especially after investing my energy into you. I feel as if you think the grass is greener on the other side. He said that he wasn't looking for anything on the other side and then to my surpirse he suggested to "be exclusive"..I thought he was going to say let's move on...I was not ready for his relpy...We discussed being exclusive...and it means not date other people and to take things slow...he also said that he had feelings for me but they were not as deep as mine and that it takes time for him to develop feelings. He also opened up about some other issues I was unaware of...for example on how different we are...he is a motorcycle rider and snowboarder where I am the chill at home type and I told him I would never expect him to give these things up as I know they are his passion. And that I could learn to snowboard or hand out at the mountain spa lol Another thing that bugged him is that we work in the same building and he did not want to discuss work and the people at work while at home...
In the end he invited me over to his family for easter....I told him I wasn't sure and he commented something like " I told you we were going to be exclusive so chill" haha...I think he thought I was not sure because of where our relationship was going but it's really because I'm a shy person and his WHOLE family will be there.
Any thoughts?
Apr 09, 2009 @ 01:01 pm