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Sugar daddy and bf


So I'm having financial issues with school and I don't get any financial aide and I used up my savings account money and now my credit cards. My job is very flexible, but doesn't pay enough. I'm taking too many classes to even get a second job and I'm a commuter it takes me an 1 and 40 mins to get to my school and the traffic is horrible. I'm only making minimum payments to my credit cards and feel like the amount isn't moving since things always happen with my poor old car. I been stressing bad, but I try not to show it and especially to bf. One coworker suggested get sugar daddy. So i joked around with my bf once saying that i need to get one and he replied that I was crazy and didn't say anything else. So i just got curious and went on the site it was very overwhelming and I knew I made a mistake then this nice man caught my interest. We started talking and was like eh whatever, i wasn't expecting much from him. I just started texting him and I never asked about money. He actually is the one that brought it up (i have always been independent and its hard for to even ask people for money) he kept asking me how much do I want and I kept chaning the subject and  after 2 days he was okay how can I help you. So he asked me to give him a list of my credit cards and he immediately said he will pay 1of them the next day. The next day came and he never texted back I honestly was like whatever it was too good to be true. So he apologized he lives in another state and he was having trouble with signal and he insisted that he will pay them. He gave me his account info and ask to give him the picture that I had payed it and so I did. I was really surprised on how he trusted me. I didn't tell him i was dating he immediately told me to cancel my account that he doesn't want me talking to other guys. I know its wrong to hide that from both of them I honestly didnt even think he was going to pay my cards I thought it was a scam. He told me from the beginning he wasnt looking for anything serious and he isnt trying to have sex with me. He just wants a casual companion and a friend. He wants to come and visit me in  month and wants to meet me in person to see how we click and if one says they aren't interested anymore then its fine we will go our separate ways and not to worry about the money since I been so nice to him. I honestly don't want a long term sugar daddy i just need help with paying one card or 2 will be so much help and then it will be easier for me to pay the rest since I plan on working the holidays. Should i still tell my boyfriend even thought i didn't slept with him and since I know its not going to last.?
Oct 02, 2018 @ 11:46 am

9 Replies



Well I have to say I'm surprised he paid your cards off just like that before even meeting. In my view, you are definitely cheating on your boyfriend and need to re-think your priorities and values.
Oct 02, 2018 @ 02:01 pm


Yes you should. Secrets always come to light. You were wrong and if you want any chance at a real relationship with your bf you need to be honest immediately. I agree its cheating.
Oct 06, 2018 @ 09:01 am

Sorry girl it's cheating

Tough I can see the benefits and the temptation this can only complicate things o do believe hour cheating unless he's ok with it I don't see this to be a positive thing but on the Britt aide your cards are paid off haha
Oct 11, 2018 @ 03:36 pm


Tell your bf about it
Oct 15, 2018 @ 04:04 am


Tell him he deserves to know
Oct 15, 2018 @ 04:05 am


Could you tell me which site you went on I could use a Sugar Daddy to help me out.
Oct 18, 2018 @ 08:38 am

Cheating is not always just sleeping with someone else

Yes! You need to tell your BF. This is deff a form of disloyalty which is a form of cheating.
Karma is a B so be careful and treat others how you would like to be treated. No one is judging but its the right thing to do !
Nov 19, 2018 @ 05:07 am


Honesty is the best policy.
Nov 19, 2018 @ 09:51 am

Money is Money

Look, it was wrong of you, in my opinion, to continue on with the Sugar Daddy website when your bf was clearly not with this idea. You should tell him, However, see if you might be able to work out an agreement to where you can keep getting money from the Sugar Daddy, until he wants to sleep with you, that way you can still be getting things paid off while your bf knows only if he agrees to this idea. If he doesn't you will have to choose, either your bf or the sugar daddy. Good luck with whatever decision you decide to stick with.
Jan 26, 2019 @ 11:05 pm

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