Last year was a very rough year. My husband had shattered his C3 , his neck , and was in an Aspen collar for about 6 months , after his collar was allowed off he was diagnosed with Cancer , so I have been his caregiver full time ,, he is doing wonderful , and I am still chasing my grandkids , and trying to keep up with all that is going on . I have learned you have to take time for yourself , and you can easily burn out. I will be turning 61 this April . it is not a given , that I can teach myself new things , but I am working on it