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Do Ladies Really Prefer A Cocky Guy?

Posted by Siofan | Wednesday May 25, 201113 comments

Do you walk in a room and immediately zero in on the guy brooding in the corner? A study conducted by researchers at the University of British Columbia (the findings were released this week in the American Psychological Association's journal Emotion) proved some gender stereotypes are true(ish). The researchers showed 1,000 adults pictures of the opposite sex in various emotional states and asked them to rate their attractiveness.

Before we get in to what women find attractive, let's stop on men for a second. Images shown depicted women displaying the following facial expressions: happiness, pride, shame, and neutral. Men found the images of women smiling to be most attractive. The researchers believe their findings enforce that smiling is more feminine and that a smiling woman looks like she's happy to see her man.

What did women respond to? They looked at the same emotional poses of men, preferring the ones of those where they were looking full of pride. Pride could be interpreted as a man's ability to successfully provide for his family. Least attractive to the women in the study were the smiling men. There were some variables in age; while women both young and old responded best to pride, younger ladies found shame similarly attractive. Older women found shame almost as unattractive as those smiling guys.

"Shame says I'm a bad guy, but I know I screwed up so you can trust me," Jessica Tracy, the psychologist who headed the study, told The Vancouver Sun. "Older women may already have learned it's not such a good idea to go for [the bad guy]."

This totally explains the appeal of Mad Men's Don Draper who exudes confidence and pride and rarely smiles; the most sullen of them all, Twilight's Edward Cullen; and a host of other glum heartthrobs we'd be happy to look at photos of—in the name of science of course.

So what do you think? Does a cocky guy get your heart racing, or is a smile the first thing you notice?
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on May 25, 2011  takoda  28,648 said:


Interesting study Siofan, but I don't get the smile thing either.

Take Gorge Clooney, if you don't I will. LOL
He smiles a lot and I still find him to be a very confident man. I think it depend on the woman and where she is in her life at the time
she runs into these men. Just about all of us took a few looks at that
bad boy at one point in our life's. I even ended up with one, but he still smiles all the time and enjoys
making others smile. So I think theirs a lot more to it then just this.

on May 25, 2011  mamaluv  STAFF said:

I'm put off by cockiness/confidence, though it'd be interesting to see the pics they used - maybe I'd be swayed? I generally respond to genuine smiles (as opposed to yearbook photo smile-grimaces) and people who are laughing when their eyes get all crinkly. I find that a lot of professional headshots look way too smouldery (is that a word? Okay sure), pouty or smirky.

on May 25, 2011  Ali de Bold  STAFF said:

I think this is fascinating. I think the pride thing also shows confidence, which is really attractive. The shame part I don't get at all. Funny that smiling guys were found less attractive, since that can also indicate they are confident.

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