The book is about learning what constitutes "Cupidity" in a relationship. According to the authors there are emotional, mental,physical,social and spiritual cupidity. From the first chapter "..acts of Cupidity aren't disastrous, and they are most often reversible.They're what some like to call opportunities to "fail forward." Every failure at love is just a chance for you to learn more about what not to do. And that's not just the case in dating; the first year of marriage is often full of close-quarters Cupidity."

Cupidity is about the differences between a man and a woman and how each gender handles certain things like women wanting romance and a man wanting a soul mate. I found that each chapter gives advice as to how to avoid these Cupidity challenges, better know as stupid love, and to have the relationship you want with your special partner. Their was also relationship advice on how to deal with the spiritual cupidity as well.